in the movies ...
most of the time when you see pagan rites
or they mention paganism
people are nude or having sex
that is not the case for most sects of paganism
that is not the case in real life
only a few sects of paganism require nudity
most pagans do their rites in private or in public or in a gathering
sex magic can be used to serve the light or the dark path
it can be done btwn two lovers in privacy
or in a gathering btwn numerous partners
sex magic is not very common in most pagan communities
it can be (and it is meant to be) a very powerful rite
but in light...
it is best reserved for couples who are in a healthy, committed, loving relationship